Becka and Kylan were set up by their friend Anna. They started texting, then voice memo-ing, and before they knew it, they were talking on facetime every day. By the end of the first weekend in person, they had decided they were dating, and started planning bus trips back and forth. Since then, they've been inseperable, against the odds of long-distance dating. In August of 2025, on a road trip, Becka started planning logistics for this wedding, at which point, Kylan unofficially asked her if she'd like to get married. She said yes in August, yes (officially) in November, and they are both so excited to celebrate with you!

Becka is a middle school English teacher, and Kylan is a postdoctoral researcher at NYU, and just started a job as the director of Civic Health Project's research lab. Kylan and Becka have a robust two-person book club, lots of Amtrak points, hundreds of hours on video calls, and an incredible village that got them to where they are today. They will be living in Virginia after the wedding.